In our modern world, the male headship principle is highly controversial. If one is not careful it can consume one’s mental and spiritual energy and time and cause great conflict in circumstances where other matters are of more importance. Hence, I and all should be wise and careful not to allow the controversy to paralyze us from being a witness of the good news of salvation through Christ by causing conflict and confusion in the midst of the congregation or other assembly. For we are all at different levels of spiritual maturity and yet see through the glass darkly. Love compels us to be patient with one another! In the end it is a matter of repentant personal responsibility for the individual to be obedient to the Word of God.
Yet, we ought not as a general rule think the male headship principle is unimportant in/to Christ and his body, the universal church, as expressed in regional/local churches. When critical opportunities to address the issue comes to us, we should not fear men but obey God rather than men as the apostles said in Acts 5:29.
Any male or female who supports a violation of this male headship principle is out of biblical order.
Males and females who give females regular preference over males with respect to pulpit and other preaching/teaching functions to include coed Sunday School and coed Bible Study activities especially when the Senior Pastor is away is out of biblical order. However, non-preferred males should not exert unnecessary unrighteous force when faced with such situations for God will judge violators of all unrighteous behaviors.
Indeed, the male headship principle is not a human established custom but a Holy Spirit established doctrine and is transgenerational and is transcultural. Violation of the male headship principle will promote degradation (home, church, society) due to the little leaven leavens the whole lump principle.
Indeed, the male headship principle is important to God as expressed by his messengers through the Holy Spirit from Genesis to Revelation (e.g., Genesis 3:16-17; Isaiah 3:16-26; 1 Peter 3:1-7; Ephesians 5:22-33; Colossians 3:18-25; 1 Corinthians 11:1-16; 1 Corinthians 14:33-38; 1 Timothy 2:11-15; 1 Timothy 3:4, 12; Titus 2:1-5).
The male headship principle means men are to be prominent and heard in the worship assembly anywhere and everywhere; and, women are to be non-prominent and silent in such assemblies except under expected rare conditions, e.g., when prophesying. Note that silence is not total quietness but has the sense that they can speak but non-prophetic speech should be less abundant than men speech especially in quantity.
The male headship principle means females are to never have with respect to position, priority, place, perception, assignment, or attitude any spiritual authority, honor, or privilege over an adult male or group involving adult males in carrying out her ministerial function, publicly or privately.
One should observe that headship is not a matter of salvation but a matter of role. It is also not primarily an issue of value or competency or capability or intelligence or education of women; but, it is rather primarily a matter of God’s divine order. The male headship principle restricts/limits the roles females may assume and be assigned within the home and church. The headship principle generally has to do with making or being positioned to make the final decision (e.g., 1 Tim 2:11-12) especially where there is a matter of disagreement or conflict. Where there is agreement, headship is not an issue. Thus, limitation on organizational position/authority is applicable.
The headship principle does not require total silence of females in the presence of males as the writer of 1 Timothy 2:11-15 is the writer of 1 Corinthians 11:1-16 and 1 Corinthians 14:33-38 such that the writer of 1 Corinthians 11 explicitly allows females to speak in the assembly with restrictions. The key is they are not allowed to speak as having spiritual authority over males in position/place or attitude. With respect to 1 Timothy 2 Paul appeals to creation and with respect to 1 Corinthians 14 Paul appeals to the law in verse 34 which has reference to the law of Moses in general and to Genesis in particular. Yet, 1 Timothy and 1 Corinthians are example scriptures that show the male headship principle applies under the law of Christ.
This headship principle does not extend to every area of society especially considering the Proverbs 31 woman of biblical days as well as the number of non-spiritual functions/contributions females have rightly performed/made in society in yesteryear and even unto today.
One should observe that Galatians 3:28 in speaking of there being neither male nor female refers to salvation not role. How do I know that is true? Well the same person that writes Galatians 3 writes 1 Timothy 2 and 1 Corinthians 11; surely the Holy Spirit would not contradict himself. Moreover, the context of Galatians 3:28 is Galatians 3:26-29. In those scriptures Paul is saying that we are children of God and heirs to promises and blessings of Abraham by faith not because of our sex/gender, or nationality, or condition in life.
In general, the male headship principle applies in the home and in called/announced/expected regular or periodic assemblies whether physical or virtual. It applies in the universal church and the local/regional church. It applies wherever and whenever there are two or more formally assembled in the name of Christ (Matthew 18:20). This principle applies whether such an assembly is in a building, on the internet, radio, television, or in a park or street corner. Merely viewing an assembly from a distance whether that assembly is physical or virtual does not make one a part of the assembly however. Only when one’s level of participation/presentation positions one as part of the assembly does the issue of male headship arise.
Peter speaks of the wife as commanded to be in subjection to her husband (1 Peter 3:1). Paul speaks of the same (Ephesians 5:22-23); yet, Paul also speaks more generally of the female being in subjection to the male (1 Cor 11:1-3; 1 Tim 2:7, 11-15). The scriptures therefore speaks explicitly about the male headship principle in various contexts.
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Male headship is the biblical norm for spiritual matters in the home, church, and nation in general. But this does not apply to non-spiritual matters and heading entities such as a computer business, construction company, or a non-profit organization whose mission is not primarily preaching and teaching of spiritual doctrines. Here non-profits include government entities since their primary role is not preaching and teaching of spiritual doctrines although they are to apply spiritual doctrines in their job capacity.
The scriptures establish that the husband is to honor his wife as unto the weaker vessel (1 Peter 3:7). Here weaker vessel refers to such things as physical strength capacity and easily deceived (2 Cor 11:3). Although Peter emphasizes the husband-wife relationship, this principle reasonably extends to the general male-female relationship.
Nothing in this document should be misconstrued as justifying tyranny or abuse of females by males or males by females. Indeed all forms of abuse to include but not limited to mental and physical abuse are forbidden by scripture. Occurrence of physical abuse is self-evident when the event occurs. Mental and emotional abuse may be more difficult to determine; but biblical love will prevent occurrence.
It is true that Paul in 1 Timothy 2 speaks of female silence in the assembly and not suffering females to teach or usurp authority over males. In this context the principles of silence and usurpation speaks to the prohibition of overtaking, overshadowing, and/or over-talking in a more than louder than manner such that more than and louder than are counter to the whole principle of subjection, its projection, pattern, and teaching thereof and thereby to generations younger, spiritually and naturally. Yet, this is not a complete silence and not a complete prohibition of teaching but a subjection silence and teaching. This is evidence by the same Paul words found in 1 Cor 11 where God through Paul does not forbid females from speaking in the case of praying and prophesizing (Joel 2:28; Acts 2:17) in the assembly but establishes that they must do so with the understanding and attitude of subjection to male headship. So praying and prophesying in 1 Cor 11 is reconciled with silence elsewhere (e.g. 1 Cor 14 and 1 Tim 2) given this understanding and attitude of subjection and male headship.
The male headship principle existed before the fall in Genesis 3; biblically, it yet exists today. This is evidenced by God creating the male from the dust of the ground but not the female. Instead the female was created from the male to be the helper to and in oneness/unity with the male. This same principle exists in the biblical doctrine that the taint of sin (i.e., sin nature) and primary responsibility for sin comes down through the male not the female (Romans 5:12, 19). It follows that God has ordained the male to be the spiritual head of the home, church, and society at large in order for the male to have the authority to fulfil this primary responsibility to avoid sin and lead his family to do the same (Joshua 24:15).
Although not a determinant alone, the biblical truth that the 12 tribes of Israel are named after only sons of Jacob/Israel contributes to the male headship principle even though Jacob had a daughter named Dinah. Furthermore, although not a determinant alone, the 12 apostles are also seemingly all men (Matthew 10:2-4). Also, the Bible speaks of apostles having a special place in the afterlife (Matthew 19:28; Luke 22:30; Revelation 21:12, 14). Also, although not a determinant alone, the apostles appointed men to form the seven of Acts 6. All of this also contributes to confirmation of the biblical male headship principle.
Some of the Holy Bible scriptures are difficult in the sense that we do not want to accept them as God’s truth! But Let’s Do It God’s Way Not Satanic Society’s Way for God knows a little leaven leavens the whole lump as he can see further down the road as to effect of unprofitable actions on the person, and person groups including the “Church”!
Males let’s take our God ordained place in the home and church (Gen 2:18-25; 1 Peter 3:1-11; Ephesians 5:1-10, 21-33; 1 Timothy 2:9-15; 1 Cor 11:1-16).
Most young females who are head of the household are out of biblical order; likewise, most young males who are not head of a marital household are out of biblical order, with very rare exceptions (Matthew 19:12; 1 Timothy 5:1-16).
Females have the God assigned important role of being godly wives and teaching other females to be the same (Titus 2:3-5).
The male headship principle does not prevent a female from being a witness to the gospel of Jesus Christ in other biblically prescribed/permitted capacities.
The male headship principle does not apply to a business activity whose focus is not preaching/teaching spiritual matters (e.g., Proverbs 31:10-31) though such activities like all activities at times involve the application of spiritual principles.
Nothing herein should be misconstrued as justifying tyranny or abuse of females by males or males by females, anywhere.
Any male who supports a violation of any of the above is out of biblical order. God of the Holy Bible says so; take it up with him! But hey we all have the liberty (Gal 5:13) to follow man instead of God; but God gives no human the right to so do. Some walked away from Jesus and Jesus said to those who remained, will you also walk away (John 6:66-67)?
Key/additional scriptures include Col 3:18-19; Eph 5:21-23, 24-26, 27-29, 30-32, 33; 1 Pet 3:5-7; 1 Cor 11:3, 7-9, 10-12; 1 Tim 2:13-15; Gen 2:7, 18-20, 21-23, 24-25.
References:
For my article on Of Preaching and Teaching click here.
For my article on the Pulpit click here.
A good reference by John McArthur on the issue of women preachers can be found at the following video link. When watching the video, for clarity on 1 Cor 11:5 remember, an assembly is anywhere two or three are gathered together in Jesus name. So 1 Corinthians 11:5 applies in a church building as well as in the streets or parks or home as long as all comply with the male headship principle. But note this has to do with a spiritual assembly not things like doing work in a construction company. Video is Does the Bible Permit Women Preachers?.
There is a series of articles by Margaret Mowczko entitled “Exploring the biblical theology of Christian egalitarianism”. As I understand it complementarianism is the opposite of egalitarianism. Complementarianism claims the biblical model establishes males and females have equal access to salvation but do not have equal access to roles in the home and the organized church. Egalitarianism claims the biblical model establishes males and females have equal access to salvation but also have equal access to roles in the home and the organized church. On her site she cites one or more persons who hold that the Greek word translated head in scriptures such as 1 Corinthians 11 does not mean authority or rank but rather indicates origin or source. Indeed the word translated head there in other places refers to the natural head and has the sense of source or origin or that which is first or top. But even science says the natural head is the primary controlling or ruling part or authoritative part of the human body. Indeed, the man is the source or origin of the woman as Paul refers to in 1 Timothy 2:13. But like God as our source has authority over humans and as parents as the source of children has authority over children while in their house so it is that husbands have authority over wives and more generally men over women with respect to spiritual matters as set forth in scripture.
To God Be the Glory!
References:
Of Male Headship and Women in Ministry Additional Considerations
Of Male Headship and Biblical Typology
Women in Ministry Series by Mike Winger, an interesting YouTube series I came across in 2022 so I am adding a link to it
Why the SBC Should Say “No More” to Beth Moore, a article by SBC person. The part about the RCC should be ignored as it is not the focus of this article but the rest of the articles offers insight into the state of affairs regarding women in ministry
